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Private Beta in Bangalore

Meet people through conversations, not profiles

A members-only club where you answer one daily question, chat online first, then meet in small groups at cafes. No swiping. No followers. Just real conversation.

The Quick Version

Somo in 30 seconds

Daily Question

Answer one thoughtful prompt each day. See how others nearby think.

Online First

A short group video chat before meeting. For safety and alignment.

Small Meetups

5-6 people at a quiet cafe. Real conversation, not networking.

Curated Access

Application-based. We accept ~20 members per week.

Built different. On purpose.

We removed everything that makes social apps feel exhausting.

What we removed

  • Follower counts
  • Swiping
  • Endless feeds designed to addict
  • Pressure to perform for strangers
  • Big events with awkward small talk

What you get

  • One daily question to spark reflection
  • Online preview before meeting IRL
  • Small groups (5-6 people) at cafes
  • Curated community of thoughtful people
  • Zero pressure to stay connected

From stranger to cafe in 3 steps

Each step builds trust naturally. No awkward cold meetings.

1

Answer the daily question

Each day, you get one thoughtful prompt. Write a short, honest answer. Browse how others nearby responded. It's a window into how people think—no photos, no performative bios.

Daily prompt interface
2

Join a short online conversation

Before meeting in person, you'll hop on a casual group video experience. It's low-pressure - just a vibe check. This way, you know what to expect from the community and experience before you show up IRL.

Online group call
3

Meet at a cafe (5-6 people)

If the online experience feels good, we invite you to a small in-person meetup with a group matched on vibes, personality and interests. Quiet venue, some structure to get conversation going, and room to be yourself. That's it.

Cafe meetup

From people already in the club

Actual App Store reviews from Somo members

"Made for people looking for non-addictive socializing that offers genuine connections for friendship."
38 · Bommasandra
"There's no pressure to 'advertise' yourself. Online connections translate seamlessly to IRL chemistry."
33 · RT Nagar
"I went from answering prompts quietly to sitting at a cafe with five strangers that didn't feel like strangers."
35 · Jayanagar
"If meaningful connections are dying in today's context, SOMO brings them back with quiet panache."
34 · HSR Layout

Quick answers

Is this a dating app?

No. Somo is for friendship and meaningful connection. We don't have matching or swiping. Groups are mixed and the vibe is conversational, not romantic.

Why do I need to apply?

We're building a curated community of thoughtful people. The application helps us maintain quality and ensure everyone shares similar intentions.

Is it safe to meet strangers?

That's why we do online-first. You'll chat with the group before meeting. Venues are public cafes. And groups are small (5-6 people), never 1-on-1.

What if an offline meeting doesn't lead anywhere?

That's completely fine. Some meetings become friendships, some don't. There's zero pressure to stay connected. That's intentional.

How much does it cost?

The app is free to use. We charge a small fee for events. For offline meetups, you pay for your own food/drinks at the cafe.

How long until I get approved?

Usually within 48 hours. We review applications personally, so sometimes it takes a bit longer during busy periods.

Ready to try a different kind of social?

No commitment. Just one conversation to see how it feels. We're accepting ~20 new members per week in Bangalore.

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